love or LOVE?

what's the first thing that comes to your mind when you think about LOVE?
What kind of love?
True love? Family love? Friendly love?
well, for me, it means a lot of things..for instance, family love..
of course its not the same as LOVE, a man and a woman, but i think love you get from your family
is much more worth it..
its worth fighting for, after all, love for your mom and dad is what will get you somewhere..
i feel that, its the only love aside from the love from friends, that i can really count on..
they will always be by your side at times when you need them..

As for LOVE, like love at first sight?
i have a hard time believing in it..given to past relationship, that left me completely sceptical, and prejudice towards guys, especially those who were sweet talkers..(i despise them by the way)^_^
i mean, what's the point, when you're the only one who thinks that what you had was true love.
you wasted your time, emotion, on something thats just not even worth a penny..seriously, girls,
get out of the relationship once you felt like you're the only one who cares..its not worth it..

the strangest thing i've seen nowadays, there's basically no definition of true love..
girls especially, falls in love soo easily, and claimed instantly that its their one love..
but once you broke up, then couple of days, weeks, months after that, you get into a new relationship..now saying the same thing.."oh, he's my soulmate, my one and only"
puffff!!! months later, he dumps you..yeah! so much for a true love huh??
what's their definition of LOVE? well, you see, how can it be true love, when everytime you broke up, and get a new boyfriend, still you called it as true love? euwwww...what tha hell?-_-"

So, this is my own personal opinion, not to bash anyone, just me, stating my opinion..
love is true, when you find a guy, who loves you for who you really are, not what he wants you to be..
a guy who is willing to accept your flaws and all..
a guy who won't judge you just because you're not perfect..
a guy who would do anything to make you happy,
a guy who would give up his life for yours..
a guy who respect you as a human being, respect your family, and take in as his family
a guy who can guide you towards being a better person, (dpt bimbing kita spy jd muslim yg lbh baik)
a guy who wants nothing else but to be with you for the rest of his life..
a guy who listens you, just you..(dgr mslh, bkn jd queen control)
a guy who you can trust and count on anything
a guy who you can lean on, in bad or good..
a guy who never abandons you in any kind of circumstances..

only when "that guy" comes along, would it be LOVE, sent by GOD..ALLAH, for each and everyone..for He knows who will complete each and everyone of us..for He is our creator..:)

YAALLAH, Kau tentukan untukku jodoh yg baik..
Yg baik, datangnya hanya dr Kau,
amin..:)